After a lot of thought I think I'm going to put the blog on a little hiatus. I'm still seeing the same guy and things are going well. He's a step ahead of me in more ways than I thought, particularly the speed in which our "relationship" progresses. So it's been a bit of a struggle for me to keep up, emotionally. He wants to make a lot of future plans and I'm finding it hard to keep coming up with ways to delay the inevitable. The inevitable being a real, full blown 24 hour a day relationship. Wasn't that the whole point to begin with? Yep, it certainly was. Now that the potential is here, I'm not going to lie, I'm starting to panic just a little. This is good though. Part of the growing process is facing things that aren't comfortable and standing your ground until they are. So that's my goal. To stay calm and appreciate the opportunity I've been given...
For those of you who are reading and single, PLEASE give on-line dating a shot. It's not always easy and sometimes sucks but clearly the benefits outweigh the negatives. Even the worse situation I've encountered wasn't all that bad (Renaissance man anyone?). Think of it as shopping at a sample sale or H&M, you have to make a commitment to scour through lots of crappy stuff but it's totally worth it once you find that perfect thing. Isn't it?
Again, thanks for reading and for your support and wisdom. I've learned a lot about myself, one of the most important things being I have some of the most beautiful, kind, honest, supportive, intelligent friends and family in the world. I love you all!
I'll keep updating on my private facebook wall and if I end up back in the dating pool, will start the blog up again. Good luck with whatever your goals may be!
